A reason to fight

What do most people fight about in their families? "You haven't done anything at home, why didn't you take the dog out and take the dishes from the dishwasher etc etc"
Well guess what my fucking insane family just fought about? Or hated me for?

My brother screams "SOMEONE HAS THREWN A SPOON IN THE GARBAGE CAN!!! IT MUST'VE BEEN SOFIA!"
Me upstairs laughing a bit to myself scream "YEAH IT WAS ME, SORRY"
My Mom: "START TAKING CARE OF YOUR LIFE!!! DON'T YOU HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY, WAKE UP ARE YOU COMPLETELY LOST, WHAT THE FUCK GOES ON IN YOUR HEAD?!?!?"
Me slightly confused over the problem -> "YOU ARE YELLING AT ME FOR THROWING THE SPOON IN THE GARBAGE? YEAH, I LOVE THROWING KITCHEN THINGS SUCH AS SPOONS AND FORKS AND STUFF IN THE GARBAGE, HEY IT'S ON PURPOSE WHAT'S MORE FUNNIER THAN THAT!!!!"

OMG! sometimes I wonder if the problem really is me or if my family just don't have any sense of humour and overreact to everything?

Like that one day when I had a glass in one hand and a paper in the other - I threw the glass away and put the paper in the dishwasher.